How long does it take to figure out I am dating a gold digger? I want to avoid being taken advantage of want to be more cautious.
First, for some who do not know what the definition of “Gold Diggers” is, let’s tackle that first. Now, it is not gender specific as we have seen men take advantage of wealthy women by promising them the world but to only ended up with being completely financially ruined in addition to a couple of STDs.
Let’s get to the meat and bone of the topic. So what are gold diggers? Just like its...
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The intricacies of relationship when it comes to being exclusive to each other: How many dates does it take to close that deal.
It is irrelevant to genders when it comes to feeling good enough towards each other to state that you are ready to enter an exclusive relationship. Some may be more ready than the other while the other, because of past trauma, may take a bit longer. It is certainly not because of past trauma only that someone will take their time to enter exclusivity, and other reason may be because of fear...
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Understanding the signs of a very toxic relationship with narcissistic people
Sometimes, when living with someone who is abusive or toxic, we tend to come up with reasons as to why they behave that way. At times, we can relate their toxic behavior to stress, or that we did something that aggravated or rubbed them the wrong way. We also attribute their jealous or controlling behavior to love towards us, as this is a reason as to why they don’t let you meet with...
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Why do some people live to eat while others, eat to live? The intricacies of food addiction.
There are many food lovers out there enjoying a good meal with friends, appreciating the culinary delicacies that Michelin type restaurants offers while charging exuberant fees for their 1/4 ounce steak and slice of potatoe. However, others would prefer a one dollar meal at the local Mc Donalds and feel satisfied without breaking the bank. The live to eat vs eat to live has become and...
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The many danger of dealing with a “clinger” in a romantic relationship. When a serious conversation is a must to avoid falling deeper into a rabbit hole!
Codependency in romantic relationships is a complex issue that has been extensively studied by researchers and mental health professionals. They are characterized by a dynamic where one partner excessively relies on the other for emotional support, validation, and identity. In a this type of relationship, the codependent partner neglects their own needs and puts the needs of their partner...
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Here are some simple approach to overcome low Self-Esteem, also called Them-esteem.
The word esteem comes from latin, mean Estimate, allowing others to estimate your value. So, in my opinion, there is no LOW self-esteem, but more about them esteem. By giving the power to others to give you some value, you stripe away yourself the power you have been given and let others decide your fate. By deciding the latter, you no longer can elevate your values and accomplishments...
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7 expectations wives have towards their husbands to keep them happy, day in and day out.
Males are more concerned with passion and enjoyment in a relationship/marriage than their counterparts. In general, women are more emotional in relationships, whereas men are more concerned with keeping things light and entertaining. While passion is necessary to maintain a relationship, males are more emotionally affected by its absence. Sometimes, communication is broken and none of the...
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8 difficult situations that can kill ANY marriage if not addressed quickly and efficiently
The divorce rate in the USA has fluctuated over the years, but it generally hovers around 39% to 50%. While divorce can be a difficult and painful process, it’s important to remember that sometimes it’s necessary for the health and happiness of both partners involved. Seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can help individuals navigate the process of divorce and move...
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Dating Terminologies of the 21st century: Roller coaster of uncertainties and disappointments.
Dating in the 21st century can be daunting, to say the least. With the instant gratification mentality, it is all about how to satisfy our immediate needs without too much effort and invested time into the courting phase. If this is what you are looking for, then all the power to you. If you are looking for something more serious, it is crucial to make sure the other party in question is...
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The 7 things most men fears in relationships/marriages! Based on clinical research.
Anyone who enters a relationship with a potential mate will always experience some kind of risk. Even though you are entering with the best mindset, you will experience challenges along the way. It gets harder when one of the two entering the relationship do not value the connection as much as you do which is why it will imminently end up in disaster. Women and men will face many fears...
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